Resources for pursuing sexual purity

How many people at your church struggle with pornography? We may not like to admit it, but pornography (sexually explicit material), and increasingly pornography addiction, is an epidemic that is doing more damage to this country than swine flu.

Here are some shocking facts and figures:

  • The average age a person first views pornography online is11 years old.
  • 90% of 8-16 year-olds have viewed pornography online.
  • The pornography industry generates a global annual revenue of $52 billion.
  • 25% of total internet search requests are porn related.
  • 20% of men admit to looking at pornography at work.
  • 10% of adults admit having internet sexual addiction.
  • 34% of pornographic website activity is by women.
  • 100,000 websites offer illegal child pornography.
  • Every second, $2,075 is being spent on pornography.
  • Every second, 28,258 internet users are viewing pornography.
  • Every 39 minutes, a new pornographic video is being created in the US.
  • An anonymous survey of those in Christian ministry revealed that 53% of respondents had viewed pornography in the past 90 days.

This isn’t a small problem. This is a problem affecting Christians – ministers and congregation members, and the rest of our world. We need to act.

This week, Church by the Bridge held a men’s night to discuss pornography, and how Christian men should respond to it, and keep themselves pure. Paul Dale (Senior Minister) spoke about the Bible’s commands for sexual purity and how God designed sex to be used. Derek Higgo (a counsellor) spoke of the horrifying scope of the problem, and the psychological, relational and societal damage caused by pornography. I finished up by sharing some tips for pursuing purity.

This is a problem that our churches need to face up to – to help those struggling with this sin – not just in our churches, but in our communities. Not to mention the victims caught up in the production of these materials. Also, consider the cost to our world when $52 billion is spent on pornography each year – how many people could be fed for that amount of money?!

Resources for pursuing sexual purity

  • The seminar (minus the discussion which is obviously confidential) is available to listen or download from the Church by the Bridge website. I am in the process of turning the tips I shared into a short fact sheet – let me know if you’d like a copy once it’s completed.
  • Also available on the website is a list of resources for pursuing sexual purity.  This list includes links to books, articles, filters and accountability software, Scripture to memorise and more. If you have come across other resources that you have found helpful, I’d love to hear from you.

What is your church going to do to help people struggling with this? Please feel free to contact me if you’d like advice in organising a seminar at your church.

  • http://www.lvac.org.au Nate Swift

    Steve, downloaded and listened to the seminar this morning and found it helpful. Thanks.

  • http://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/ Luke

    Thanks for the great list of resources!

    Another good one is David Powlison’s article, “Sexual Sin and the Wider, Deeper Battle” – http://www.ccef.org/sites/default/files/2402030.pdf

    You also might like “Breaking the Cycle of Porn Addiction” – http://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/2008/12/09/breaking-the-cycle-of-porn-addiction/

  • http://twitter.com/beckybooks Becky

    Startling statistics! I had no idea that so much was spent on this industry- scary. Thanks for the great resources offered on this blog they look very helpful. Another helpful resource is a book titled, “Love and Pornography” written by Victoria Prater and Garry Prater.

  • http://www.bathgates.net Ben

    Where are those stats from, Steve? Without providing a source, the ‘startling’ statistics just look unbelievable.

  • Steven Kryger

    Hi Ben, the stats I provided were quoted by the counsellor at the seminar. I’m not sure where he sourced those quotes from, but as he works within the industry, I’m confident of what he has quoted. A couple of sources of statistics I’ve come across:

    - Internet Porn Statistics.
    - Statistics on Pornography, Sexual Addication and Online Perpetrators.

    Both of these sites quote stats that are a couple of years old, but sadly, I can’t imagine the situation would have improved.

  • http://www.bathgates.net Ben

    Thanks, Steve.

  • Steven Kryger

    I’ve received a number of emails with suggestions for additional resources, so I’m compiling a list for a future post. If you can recommend books, articles, websites etc that you’ve found helpful, please let me know. Thanks

  • http://www.finkelde.com.au John Finkelde

    Valiant Man by Dr Allan Meyer is a brilliant resource for understanding men’s sexuality & living pure

    Love this course

    http://www.careforcelifekeys.org/aus/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=11&Itemid=12