Why debating atheists online is a fruitless pursuit

I made a bloggers mistake last week – I stepped out of my blog niche, and started talking outside of the topic and purpose of Communicate Jesus.

When I wrote ‘Reflections on watching ABC1′s Q&A with Richard Dawkins‘, I made the mistake of critiquing the content of Dawkins’ argument. This was a mistake, not because I agree with Dawkins (nothing could be further from the truth), but because debating the existence of God, absolute v subjective morality, how the world came into being etc – are not subjects that I desire to discuss on this site. It’s not that I am uninterested in those topics – there’s just a limit to what can be discussed (we won’t be discussing the Premier League either, just to make that clear also!).

For this reason and a couple of others, I concluded that online religious debate isn’t a good idea.

This was met with a varied response. Some accused me of running from debate. Some thought if I start the debate I should stick around to finish it (it would be a 24/7 pursuit to answer all the comments that came in). Others thought I should set the example for how Christians should debate these topics online.

This prompted me to think further about the benefits of online religious debate, and, aided by debate stirred up by Dawkins and Deveny in recent weeks, I’ve read a lot of articles with a goal to observe the type of debate that takes place.

This behavioral observation hasn’t just been a recent endeavour either. I’ve engaged with atheists online several times in the past 6 months – on Twitter, on this website and on others.

My conclusion this week is even more definite than it was last week – I cannot see any benefit to debating with atheists, about religion, online. Primarily, this is because of the attitude of many of the atheists whose opinions I read. Take for example, three letters in the Sydney Morning Herald today:

“When reasoned debate is confronted by unreasonable faith, it is hardly surprising that the standard of the discussion is lowered. But to blame the reasoned debater for that outcome is surely unfair.”

“Let’s put Richard Dawkins’s comment about Steve Fielding in perspective. Dawkins had just sat next to a man – a senator, no less – who weakly and ineloquently confirmed on national television his belief that the earth is about 6000 years old. The real issue here is how anyone espousing such a belief and all that comes with it, particularly someone who makes decisions affecting all of us, escapes with a mere name-calling.”

“Neil Ormerod says ridicule does not pass for reasoned argument when it comes to considering candidates for sainthood, yet considers a reasoned argument to be: ”If medicine can’t yet account for it, it must have been God.” Ridicule is exactly what he should expect.”

The general attitude of atheists towards Christians seems to be “We don’t have to be polite because you’re stupid”. And it’s no surprise that atheists have this attitude when they have a role model like Richard Dawkins. Speaking of former British Prime Minister (and recent Catholic convert), Tony Blair, Dawkins says “I’d like to think we didn’t have a complete idiot for Prime Minister”. As Melanie Phillips contends:

“Indeed, he [Dawkins] seems almost to believe that, since everyone who believes in God is stupid or evil and Christians are stupid and evil because they believe in God, those who oppose him must be Christian and can be treated with contempt.”

My question is this – how can you debate someone who thinks you’re an idiot and that anything you say is utter stupidity? That’s no platform for any meaningful discussion, and yet this is the attitude of many of those atheists I see in debates online.

Of course, not all atheists are like this. But the vast majority of those I have engaged with are angry, rude and dismissive. I can’t see a way of engaging online that doesn’t throw more fuel on the fire, let alone advance the discussion.

I’m writing this post because I want us, as Christians, to carefully consider how we use our time, and how we use technology, and particularly the internet (in this case) to bring glory to God. We need to think very carefully about engaging in these debates online, and it would take a lot of convincing to get me back into the arena.

There are great opportunities for offline debate. For example, John Lennox is compelling when he debates Dawkins in ‘The God Delusion Debate‘ (and I’ve asked the ABC to invite him onto the panel of Q&A when he arrives later this month). Not to mention conversations in person, between believers and non-believers.

I think there’s also opportunity for great discussions between Christians and agnostics, and people from other religions. I even think there is opportunity to have discussions with atheists who aren’t out of the Dawkins/Deveny mold.

But for those who seek only to mock, scoff, deride and ridicule, I think we need to speak less, and instead, take seriously the whole-of-life approach encouraged by Peter in 1 Peter 2:12 -

“Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.”

Do you agree with me? Why or why not?

Update (14 April 2010)

(Feature image attribution: Magnolia Red)

  • M B Andrews

    Now’s not the time to throw in the towel Steve.

    The reason is that great text you quoted. We need to “lead such good lives among the pagans.”

    Being online is a part of living today. That’s where our pagan mates are living so we need to live and interact there too.

    But I think we need to limit our aims to “leading a good life”. Not “leading a good argument.”

    Rather than hoping that you’re going to come up with a killer syllogism (very hard in 160 characters on Twitter) see if you can come up with a really nice observation. And that’s especially when we’re on out-and-out debates about the existence of God.

    I think a good example is on The Punch yesterday. The Article was “Atheists can do better than saying believers are stupid” (which is a good point itself, but I’ll get back to that).

    The first bunch of banter went as follows:

    Eric says:
    07:10am | 16/03/10
    Evangelical atheists are just as annoying as evangelical Christians.

    Pete says:
    08:28am | 16/03/10
    dunno Eric, from personal experience I think evangelical Christians are far worse….

    Tom says:
    09:43am | 16/03/10
    Placing reliance on God for running our country is a lot smarter than those who place it on Cate Blanchett.

    Muttley says:
    10:20am | 16/03/10
    Tom, i disagree. At least we know Cate Blanchett exists….

    M B Andrews says:
    11:35am | 16/03/10
    Muttley, does Cate Blanchett really exist? I think we need to be more skeptical.

    It’s a soft shot, sure. But it does gently undermine the final absurdity of skepticism. And being gentle is a big part of things. On other blogs, instead of bluntly correcting people, I’ve quietly pointed out something that they might find interesting. So to a lady called Julie who was ridiculously claiming that all children are atheists, I submitted the following:

    @Julie If you’re interested in the default worldview of children, you should definitely look up the research done by the Oxford scholar Dr Oliviera Petrovich. Her research with children in Japan, which is a non-theist culture, seems to indicate that children innately believe in a transcendent creator.

    We need to love our blogging neighbour. And I think we do that in trying to find ways to serve them – with useful knowledge, with humour and the long lost art of Christian manners.

    And I think it will actually work. The tide of sympathy has turned against Dawkins – as the title of that article in The Punch revealed. But it will only continue to do so if we Christians show exemplary grace whilst under fire.

  • http://st-eutychus.com Nathan

    Hi Steve,

    The reason I devote some of my spare time to doing just this is so that people who arrive on objectionable posts on atheist blogs via genuine google searches asking questions need to see the gospel proclaimed at that time.

    I’m happy to discuss things with atheists so long as I can promote Jesus on a platform to people who are at the very least thinking about the question of God.

  • Steven Kryger

    Matt and Nathan, this is why I love the blog format – it is so useful to hear different perspectives and be challenged in our conclusions. I’m encouraged to hear how and why you are both using the web to engage, and to be far more fruitful than I have been! Thanks for sharing this encouragement.

  • http://macintoshhowto.com Wayne

    It reminds me of these two proverbs:

    Pr 26:4 Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be like him yourself.

    Pr 26:5 Answer a fool according to his folly, or he will be wise in his own eyes.

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  • http://macintoshhowto.com Wayne

    They make some good points over at Thinkers podium Steve!

    Wayne

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  • Estan Beedell

    Why is it that you think there’s such an overabundance of atheists keen to debate, or as you put it “ridicule”, beliefs on the internet. Maybe because actually questioning and examining beliefs leads to atheism? Just a thought.

  • Steven Kryger

    I think one of the reasons is that atheists don’t have a formal place to gather together as a collective (for example, as Christians gather in a church). The internet has become the ‘meeting place’ for some atheists, and so some are much more active in this space. Just a thought.

  • Anoop Gupta

    I must admit I’ve spent a lot more time debating atheists online than I’d care to measure. I debate them because, as M B Andrews pointed out above (March 17, 2010 at 3:15 pm), the internet is increasingly where we live, and it is where atheists gather. It is also fast becoming the primary mission field for many.

    If we agree that every journey to ‘belief’ begins with ‘disbelief’ we must agree that every theist begins as an atheist. Thus, every atheist, online or otherwise, is a spiritual journeyman looking for answers. I’ve often asked myself why would an atheist bother arguing against God online if they weren’t fundamentally challenged by Him?

    Perhaps our insecurity comes from our expectation of a favourable response while we wait. If we believe that the Gospel has the eternal transforming power claimed in Scripture, then the fruits of our individual efforts in proclaiming Christ need not be harvested ourselves. In other words, the words we type today may bear fruit in another’s life at another time whether or not we are there to witness it.

    The fact is, we don’t know when the Holy Spirit begins its work in the heart of another. It may work through some innocuous and quickly forgotten turn of phrase, some line of reasoning, in our avoidance of ad hominems or intellectually dishonest arguments, or in the way we graciously bid an antagonist farewell. The miraculous transformation that brings joy and warmth into an unbelievers life may even take place because of the very fact of our interaction, perhaps months or even years afterwards.

    It may, then, be more a matter of faithfulness than fruitfulness. If we agree that faith is a commitment that God exists, and that He’ll be there for us as He has been there for others in the past, and will be there for others in future, then we needn’t wonder whether our engagement with those that just seem to want to shame and ridicule is fruitful or not, as it always will be. I’d go further – if we engage in apologetic debate reasonably, lovingly, carefully, and in complete faith in the power of the Holy Spirit, then the opportunity to debate itself is fruit of the spirit, whatever the outcome.

  • http://www.TilledSoil.org Steve Wilkinson

    Hi Steve,

    This is a kind of cross-post from your response to my article: http://www.tilledsoil.org/2011/03/30/is-apologetic-posting-on-internet-sites-a-waste-of-time/

    I think the key here is discernment. One could waste tons of time going into the ‘wolf’s den’ and posting, so to speak. I think the situation I linked to is unusual (Richard Morgan’s conversion at Dawkin’s web forum), but should be kept in mind.

    I tend to post more in general media stories that venture into areas of religion and ethics, or bad science. I’m not even trying so much to convert the people who come and argue and poke fun of me, as I am looking to present an intelligent, level-headed, and hopefully respectful Christian dialog into the secular stream for the thousands or millions of 3rd party people to the conversation. I especially try to correct false views of what Christianity teaches, which are thick in most secular articles that touch on the area.

    And, as you pointed to in your last response above, I’m pretty convinced that Christians are part of the Holy Spirit’s means of working in the lives of non-believers. The Holy Spirit ultimately converts the heart, but I think, often does that through the chipping away of interactions with Christians. My goal is never to convert (as I can’t do that anyway), but to, as Greg Koukl often says, put a stone in their shoe… ie: give them something to ponder or trouble them about their current views. -Steve