If you don’t know, it’s not obvious

“How much do I have to pay to attend church?”

This was a genuine question asked of a friend, by a woman interested in attending their church. She had no experience of church, and thought that going to church cost money – much like a night out at Hoyts, or watching the Rabbitohs and Dragons out the football stadium.

And who can blame her for not knowing – she’s never been before!

I was speaking with a friend this morning who wanted to come and check out church – he’s never been inside before, and is curious. His question: “where’s the front door?”

It’s obvious to me and anyone who is a regular, but again – a very reasonable question to ask if you’ve never been before.

What other questions do people have who are unfamiliar with church? Perhaps questions like:

  • Am I welcome at church? Do I have to be a Christian to attend?
  • Will I be asked to say something?
  • How long does church go for?
  • What happens at church?

What questions would you add to this list?

In an increasingly unchurched society, we need to make the answers to these questions clear to those people who are considering coming to church. We need to work hard to provide answers to the questions that we don’t even think are questions because they are so obvious to us.

If you don’t know, it’s not obvious.

  • Kiri

    I’ve been researching a bunch of websites of churches and found a few with “What do I wear?” in their FAQs which I think is really helpful.
    Also different questions like how to get there (public transport, parking, etc), and what the children do. I particularly like the following website’s Visitor Tips section: http://www.ccvonline.com/Arena/default.aspx?page=14902

  • http://jameskrieg@adam.com.au James

    I wonder if some people don’t bother coming to church, Bible study, school/university Chrisitian meetings etc. because they already have assumptions about what is required or what might happen (based on 2nd or 3rd hand reports) that they have already decided they don’t like..