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Will Christians thank Steve Jobs?

Christians are often known for what we’re against.

  • Abortion.
  • Pornography.
  • Gay marriage.

But are we also known for what we are for? And how do we respond when others, even organisations, act in support of the things that we are for?

Take for example Apple.

CEO of Apple, Steve Jobs, won’t have porn available in the iTunes store. In fact, he is happy to promote his competitors products if porn is what you want. Wired reports:

“You know, there’s a porn store for Android,” Jobs said. “You can download nothing but porn. You can download porn, your kids can download porn. That’s a place we don’t want to go, so we’re not going to go there.”

Given the size of the porn industry, it’s hard to imagine that Jobs would be making this decision on commercial grounds. And whilst the iTunes store still has some questionable (i.e. soft-core porn) content, this resolve by Jobs is good news, news that should be celebrated.

How will we respond? Will we thank Steve Jobs? Or will we remain silent?

I’d like to suggest that as well as being the ones who jump up and down in protest when decisions are made that are bad for our society, we are also the ones who celebrate and thank those responsible for making decisions that support our society. Are you with me?

Perhaps if you agree you can write a note (i.e. comment) at the bottom of this post, and I’ll pass them onto Steve (via the Apple contact page!).

On a semi-related note…

Speaking of Steve Jobs, Joshua Harris recently wrote a letter to Steve Jobs. I liked the intention behind it. Here’s an excerpt:

“I’ve been using your computers now for 25 years. I’m grateful for the work you’ve done. I mean that. Thank you! And I want you to know that I pray for your good health often. I also pray that one day soon you’ll come to know and worship God’s son, Jesus Christ, who gave his life to save sinners like you and me. All the success you’ve achieved is meaningless apart from knowing him and finding through faith in him reconciliation with God.
God bless you, Mr. Jobs. And great work on the iPad.”

Pornography = Despair. Jesus = Hope.

Pornography has enslaved many. Perhaps you are one of its slaves.

Throughout March, Outreach Media is embarking on a bold poster campaign to show the freedom and hope that Jesus offers. The poster will be displayed outside churches across Australia – here it is (click to enlarge):

I hesitate in describing this as a ‘bold campaign’. On one level it’s bold, because churches don’t often speak about pornography. I don’t think pastors avoid this topic – I’ve heard it preached against in sermons, and pastors regularly counsel people who struggle with this issue. But for a church to speak out about pornography, to display a poster emblazoned with the word ‘pornography’ is unusual. Have you seen this before?

However, on another level, it’s not that bold, it’s just refreshing and exciting to see churches talking about something that’s so now so big and awkward for our community. For a church to publicly make mention of the issue shows that not only are Christians aware of the current issues and struggles of our society, but we also know the source of hope in the despair these struggles bring. We shouldn’t be ashamed to speak truth and offer hope to our communities, in the form of our Lord Jesus Christ.

The campaign will have several elements:

  • the poster, displayed outside over 100 churches across Australia,
  • a website (pornequalsdespair.org – soon to be launched) that is promoted on the poster,
  • a DVD, and
  • a seminar (in Sydney, Australia)

Malcolm Williams is the Director of Outreach Media, and so I’ll let him explain the background to the campaign and what will take place during March:

Why are we doing this? Because Internet pornography is dramatically changing community behaviour and standards. What’s different about Internet pornography is the triple ‘A’ threat. More and more people are slipping into watching pornography and struggling because online pornography lacks accountability, it’s anonymous and it’s so accessible.

The sex industry is now a $100 + billion industry. But what about internet pornography? Well, there are all sorts of statistics on its scope and scale. But who really knows? Certainly its income is in the billions. However, the telling statistic comes from Google. Currently one quarter of all Google searches are now for pornography. These days Google doesn’t readily reveal total search figures. But last year a research group called comScore estimated that Google handled 235 million searches a day in July.

The latest statistics on gender usage may surprise. Internet Pornography is not an exclusively male thing. In fact, usage splits 70% male and 30% female.

And the effects of Internet pornography are being felt in churches.

The March campaign

Our March poster provides your church with a platform to raise this issue not only with your congregation but with the whole community. And this is honouring to the Lord Jesus Christ. We, of all people, should be the ones who deal truthfully and frankly with difficult topics, showing leadership in our communities.

Almost certainly there are people in your church who are struggling. And you can’t be sure who they are. It may be retirees, it may be children as young as six or seven. Remember the triple ‘A’ threat.

The DVD

We initially planned to resource the poster with a kit that had a script, some handouts and an accompanying PowerPoint? to help churches run an information night for the whole community. However the more we thought about the project it became clear that this subject demands a proper DVD presentation from relevant experts.

As we spoke to therapists and those who’ve run information nights in local schools for parents, we discovered something important. People simply don’t come to information nights on the issue. The reason is the enormous shame attached. Many people feel compromised because they’ve looked at even a little Internet pornography. Because sexuality is so core to our being, the shame is all the greater. Many people no doubt think that by attending they’re owning up to having a ‘problem’.

So, those who we’ve spoken with suggest that those churches organising a presentation strongly encourage the whole congregation to attend. This helps all those attending to feel safe and not embarrassed. The DVD we’re producing will work with all members of the community. It will include a diagnostic tool to help people determine where they’re at with their current behaviour as well as other resources that can be downloaded and printed.

How do I get the DVD?
Because of the importance of the issue, we are relying on donations to fund the production costs. We will send it to you for $10 (which covers our postage and handling). Please just reply to this email and indicate that you’d like to have the DVD sent to you. Make sure to include your postage details.

Please let friends in other churches know about this DVD. The DVD offer and price is also available to non Outreach Poster churches.

When will it be available?
 We’re still finishing off the DVD and expect it to be ready for shipping on March 20. Please order the DVD now to help us know how many copies to print. Email Outreach Media with the number of copies required and your postal address.

Seminar

Finally, if you’re church is in striking distance of Ryde in Sydney you may prefer to come along on Wednesday 31st March to hear Derek Higgo (Psychotherapist and counsellor) and others speak about pornography. The event will be held at the Ryde Anglican Centre at 7:30pm.

Again, for the reasons mentioned above, we suggest that you strongly encourage the whole congregation to come. Please book your church in early as there are limited places. To book, please email Outreach Media and provide the numbers for your church. If you have any questions about the event, call Judith on (02) 8898 9320.

Under 7′s searching for porn

Is your child searching for porn?

According to Symantec (note: they produce internet filtering software), the top 5 search terms for children seven years of age and under are:

  1. YouTube
  2. Google
  3. Facebook
  4. Porn
  5. Club Penguin (a Disney site for children)

Read my full article over at Sydney Anglicans.

More resources for pursuing sexual purity

When I wrote about the scale of our society’s addiction to pornography in ‘Resources for pursuing sexual purity‘, some people responded skeptically. They didn’t believe that the problem is as big as I suggested. Sadly, not only were the statistics I quoted those from a counsellor who is helping people with this problem daily, but it is the struggle of so many Christian men that I chat with. I realise this isn’t a struggle for all men (and is in fact a struggle for women too), but I know that the internet is a battlefield where Satan is seriously wounding many of God’s children. It’s also a destructive place for many of our own children (see ‘How shall we protect our children online?‘).

In the first article, I shared some of the resources I’d discovered while researching for a seminar I co-presented at my church. Since then, a couple more resources that have been drawn to my attention and I wanted to draw them to yours too:

  • Gospel Coalition – John Piper, Tim Keller and Don Carson discuss ‘how does the gospel-centered approach work to help a guy conquer the sin of pornography?
  • Freedom Begins Here – video resources for those seeking freedom from addition to porn and other sexual sin.
  • XXX Church – a website with lots of resources including internet filters, plus details on their ministry to people in the sex industry, and a church plant in amongst it all in Las Vegas.
  • Elephant Room – this website describes itself as ‘a christian resource toolbox for the pursuit of purity’.
  • Purity vs Porn – Blogger and Bible college student, Dave Miers, shares a (growing) list of resources.
  • Purity in the Age of Porn – a ‘MiniZine’ produced by Matthias Media.
  • Dirty Girls – a ministry to help women who struggle with pornography addiction.
  • 11 tips to help you avoid sexual immorality – an article on youth site Fevr.

If you can recommend other resources, I’d love to hear from you.

Resources for pursuing sexual purity

How many people at your church struggle with pornography? We may not like to admit it, but pornography (sexually explicit material), and increasingly pornography addiction, is an epidemic that is doing more damage to this country than swine flu.

Here are some shocking facts and figures:

  • The average age a person first views pornography online is11 years old.
  • 90% of 8-16 year-olds have viewed pornography online.
  • The pornography industry generates a global annual revenue of $52 billion.
  • 25% of total internet search requests are porn related.
  • 20% of men admit to looking at pornography at work.
  • 10% of adults admit having internet sexual addiction.
  • 34% of pornographic website activity is by women.
  • 100,000 websites offer illegal child pornography.
  • Every second, $2,075 is being spent on pornography.
  • Every second, 28,258 internet users are viewing pornography.
  • Every 39 minutes, a new pornographic video is being created in the US.
  • An anonymous survey of those in Christian ministry revealed that 53% of respondents had viewed pornography in the past 90 days.

This isn’t a small problem. This is a problem affecting Christians – ministers and congregation members, and the rest of our world. We need to act.

This week, Church by the Bridge held a men’s night to discuss pornography, and how Christian men should respond to it, and keep themselves pure. Paul Dale (Senior Minister) spoke about the Bible’s commands for sexual purity and how God designed sex to be used. Derek Higgo (a counsellor) spoke of the horrifying scope of the problem, and the psychological, relational and societal damage caused by pornography. I finished up by sharing some tips for pursuing purity.

This is a problem that our churches need to face up to – to help those struggling with this sin – not just in our churches, but in our communities. Not to mention the victims caught up in the production of these materials. Also, consider the cost to our world when $52 billion is spent on pornography each year – how many people could be fed for that amount of money?!

Resources for pursuing sexual purity

  • The seminar (minus the discussion which is obviously confidential) is available to listen or download from the Church by the Bridge website. I am in the process of turning the tips I shared into a short fact sheet – let me know if you’d like a copy once it’s completed.
  • Also available on the website is a list of resources for pursuing sexual purity.  This list includes links to books, articles, filters and accountability software, Scripture to memorise and more. If you have come across other resources that you have found helpful, I’d love to hear from you.

What is your church going to do to help people struggling with this? Please feel free to contact me if you’d like advice in organising a seminar at your church.

How shall we protect our children online?

This article doesn’t fit within the goal of Communicate Jesus to provide “insights and inspiration to maximise your ministry”. However, it discusses an important question that is particularly topical for our Australia readers, but of value to readers around the world. I welcome your comments on how we answer the question – “How shall we protect our children online?”.

Two years ago I was travelling with my sisters by train from Rome to Mestre. In our carriage we sat with three Italians, doing our best to communicate in their stilted English, and our non-existent Italian.The gentlemen in the trio had spent some time in Germany, and shared a story that still strikes me as remarkable.

He was on foot, waiting to cross the road. Though he didn’t have permission from the ‘green man’, there were no cars around and he proceeded to cross the road. Seemingly out of nowhere, police approached him and he was fined for crossing the road while the pedestrian light was still red. I asked him why this was such a big deal (should I admit that I’ve done this more than a couple of times?!). He explained that the law is not in place for the benefit of adults like him – he can look around and see if a car is coming and cross safely. Children who are watching, however, don’t have the same awareness, and if they cross when the signal isn’t green – because they have seen an adult do this – they could be in a lot of danger. The law was in place for the benefit of the younger, weaker, citizens.

It put a very different slant on how I viewed the law. It’s not always about me.

The question our nation is considering at the moment is this: how do we protect our younger, weaker citizens from the dangers and perversions that exist online? There has been much talk recently of the Federal Government’s plans to adopt an ISP-based filtering system (in laymans terms – blocking prohibited content before it arrives at your computer). There are many ‘personal’ filters available, for example Covenant Eyes, Net Nanny, SafeEyes and many more (here’s a list of 10 reviews of this type of filter). These filters are installed on your computer, and block the content when it arrives, or when a user attempts to access restricted content on your computer. A very rough but hopefully helpful, simple analogy to understand these two types of filters is to compare the post-office stopping Playboy magazine being delivered to your home (the government’s proposed filter), and your mum stopping Playboy being delivered from the letterbox to your bedroom (the current range of filters). Except, as Clive Hamilton points out, the content that is being filtered is much nastier than Playboy.

The basic plan as proposed by our government is this (again, it’s hard to boil down an issue that is by nature technical, but I’ll do my best):

  • The government will produce a blacklist – a list of no more than 10,000 URLs (basically, websites) of prohibited content.
  • ISPs (the companies that deliver the internet to your computer or mobile device) will be mandated to block this content from being delivered to you.
  • The blacklist of content will be secret – known only by the ISPs.

Not surprisingly (and to the benefit of our democracy and the robustness of this strategy) there are critics of the Government’s plan. Eight of the most common arguments against the plan are:

  1. We live in a democracy and the government should not restrict what adults do or view (as long as it’s within the law). Take for example this comment by Mike Atkins from Brisbane on Australian IT: “How dare you even think that you know better than me about what I can see or not see? I have no interest in censoring what you see so have the common to courtesy to respect my interests in return.”
  2. It’s the parents responsibility to prevent their children from viewing inappropriate online content – not the government’s.
  3. The government may expand the list of prohibited sites to include, for example, sites that are “anti-government”. Because the list is secretive, we won’t know if we are being prevented from seeing these sites.
  4. There are other dangers to children online – such as cyber-bullying, and chat-room paedophiles – that can’t be filtered in this way. Shouldn’t we be giving equal focus to these dangers?
  5. Internet users might inadvertently be blocked from accessing legal and appropriate content.
  6. The implementation of such a filter is technically extremely difficult and will dramatically decrease the speed of the internet.
  7. A great deal of child porn (15,000 videos and 50,000 images, as cited by Australian Federal Police acting assistant commissioner Neil Gaughan in Computer World)  is circulated on peer-to-peer networks that can’t be filtered by ISPs.

Before discussing the pros and cons of the filter, it’s worth noting the challenge the nature of the internet poses for enforcing Australian law. A website can be hosted (have its “home address”) anywhere in the world. This means that whilst our government might have laws about what content is legal or illegal to view in Australia (the Australian Communications and Media Authority has a list of content that is prohibited), unless the content (e.g. website with child porn images) is hosted in Australia (or unless a website that is hosted in Australia links to that content), there is very little the Australian government can do about it. This is similar to having a state in Australia that is free from the laws of the rest of Australia where people can go to access whatever illegal content they want…except that this isn’t a state – it’s the internet, and it’s freely accessible in most homes, and on most mobile devices across the nation.

With this challenge in mind, let’s continue to ponder the question – “How shall we protect our children online?”.

Staying on top of the developments and discussions isn’t easy, and I hope that I haven’t, and don’t, mislead or misrepresent either side of this complex discussion. The government has at times added to the complexity, for example, Communications Minister, Stephen Conroy has tried to assure critics of the plan by citing other countries (Sweden, Britain, Canada and New Zealand) that use the proposed filter. However, from several sources including The Age, “participation by ISPs [in these countries] was optional and the filtering was limited in scope to predominantly child pornography”.

I thought I would share with you five of my own reflections upon reading the material for and against the proposed plan:

  1. We need to be shocked and appalled that there is such terrible content online that degrades women, destroys the innocence of children, and provides great sexual temptation to men and women alike. We should be outraged that children (and others) are abused and exploited for the entertainment or titillation of others. This is our biggest problem – not the infringement of civil rights (such as the ability to view whatever I want online). Democracy isn’t a free ticket to do whatever I want – it’s about electing officials who will enforce the laws of the land according to the needs and general well-being of society as a whole.
  2. The anti-filter proponents are right – it is parents and not the government that should be responsible for protecting our children from inappropriate online content (the government should go after the idiots who are creating this material). Parents should know what their children are looking at online. They should install a filter on their home computers. They should put the computer in a ‘public’ place – e.g. the lounge room where there will always be other people around. But not all parents do. And internet is now as readily accessible on mobile phones as it is on the home computer. So unless good parenting is mandated, and phones can adopt suitable filtering, the danger for our children will still be very real and easy accessible. On the ABC News website, Mark Newton says to supporters of the government’s filter – “after spending 30 years proving that our nation can successfully raise children in an environment of ubiquitous access to uncensored online services, are you able to explain how profoundly Australian parents must have failed to justify this radical proposal?” In response, I would suggest that this proposal does not imply that every parent has failed, or that parents aren’t doing their best to protect their children – many are. However (to use a very different analogy), every person doesn’t need to commit a crime to prove that gaols are necessary. Some measures are necessary to protect the vulnerable who aren’t being protected by those who should protect them.
  3. Good measures of accountability need to be put in place to ensure that this government (and future governments), don’t use the secret blacklist as a way of blacklisting “anti-government” material. We don’t want to our internet access to be reminiscent of China’s. However, the blacklist isn’t administered by one person – all Australian internet service providers would have a copy. Whilst they can’t make the blacklist publically available (it would be dangerous and irresponsible to publish a list of 10,000 websites with prohibited and perverse content), we can be sure that they would speak up if they saw sites added to the list that didn’t fit the criteria.
  4. There are technical challenges that need to be overcome if the proposed filter will be implemented usefully. We don’t want legal sites to be blocked. We don’t want the internet to be slowed down to a point where it’s unusable. However, this is the purpose of the pilot – to identify the challenges, to find the problems, and then see what we can do to find the solutions to those problems. The internet represents a history of innovation and problem-solving – there is no reason why these challenges can’t also be overcome, or at the very least that we shouldn’t try to overcome them.
  5. Sadly, there are other challenges to children’s safety online that can’t be fixed by a filter. The filter certainly won’t be a silver bullet. However, because all problems can’t be fixed with a filter, doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try to stop some problems with a filter. Surely a bandage that prevents some blood loss is better than no bandage?

This is a complex debate, but the underlying question is simple and clear – “How shall we protect our children online?”. Let’s forget about pursuing our needs and demanding our rights, and consider those younger, and more vulnerable than us. Let’s practically answer the question “how shall we protect our children online?” in a way they can thank us for many years into the future.

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